Wondering about the header? Last day I confronted one of my close friend in the past. I trusted him a lot and thought he would be the one who I can trust under any circumstances lied to me on an issue. I believed in his lies. One day when that friend was not around and I was defending him to others adnd I lost my face in that conversation with others who swear to god that they were true and he was the liar. Later I found that he was the one who lied. I don’t want to confront him as everything was over and nothing is going to change by making him admit his lies.
But I am not able to move on, after a week time, I asked him about what happened that day and what was the truth. He decided to stick to his lies and fool around me, after all these times we have spent together he was lying to me in my face. After further probing he admitted, but he lost it. He lost my trust and my friendship. It’s never going to be the same again. At last as everyone he said, it’s my fault that I was making up a small issue into a bigger one.
At that point I realized that people’s actions are based on fear. He lied to me for the first time because he thought I may go mad for what he has done, he lied to me the second time when I confronted him because he don’t want me to be upset listening to the truth and finally he accused me because he is too afraid to accept that our friendship ended because of his lies. He didn’t understand I will face anything and will stand by his side as always, if he is true to me. Trust is the foundation for any relationship and for friendship it’s everything. I don’t trust him anymore. End of trust and end of friendship.
If it’s wrong don’t do it, and if you decided to do it, don’t lie to those who you want to stand by your side during all the time. I don’t lie to people who are closer to me.I don’t know whether I am good guy or a bad guy and I don't know how many guys really like me but I am true and real. If I say you are my friend and I will do anything for you, I mean every word.
Saturday, October 9, 2010
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